My white grandparents want to be in my life what should i do?

my mom is black and was raped by my white father. he was not but into jail for what he did. he is not in my life but my white grandparents want to be in my life after all of those years. but i think it is because my aunt told me that my father can't have anymore kids because of he was in the war and he just came back, something happened to him so he can't have anymore kids. i believe he to wants to be in my life as well. my aunt said they most think a ****-er child is better then no child at all. and i think they are glad i look like them, i have blond hair and blue eyes. (i look like my avatar) i really do not want to make my mom sad and i still feel made at what my father did to my mother, even if it is the reason i am here. i was raised on black panthers beliefs, so i know a lot about my history. and that is another reason i don't want to see them. so what do you think i should do?

My white grandparents want to be in my life what should i do?

You should do what makes you feel comfortable. If you don't think you would feel comfortable with your grandparents being in your life then you shouldn't allow them to be a part of your life. But don't base your decision upon their race. And don't base your decision upon what your father did to your mother, because he alone is responsible for what he did. And don't base your decision upon what others say about your grandparents. Find out for yourself how they feel if you really want to know.

My white grandparents want to be in my life what should i do?

By the number of questions dealing with what race you belong to. I think, you beleive in racism.

Skin color does not matter to me. I accept your beleifs. I accept you as another person who belongs to the planet earth. The End.

Good luck! have a nice life!

My white grandparents want to be in my life what should i do?

its hard to understand true motives behind a request without talking directly to the one asking it. If your grandparents want you in their lives for real....you should at least find out if its for true and good intentions. After all, it is not their fault what their son did in order for you to be created....you are their blood either way. I understand your mom would be hurt by it so if you decide to take the step be sure to have a long talk with her about how you both feel about it. You did not come into this world solely related to your mother regardless of how you were fathered. You have history with other people and so must deal with that one way or another.

your aunt has no way of knowing if what she said is true or not...from my experience with mixed race families....those that really dont agree with it just dont make the effort to keep in touch with the family members that practice it. This makes me believe that your grandparents must have better intentions then your lead to believe...cause if they really see you as a "****-er child"(hate that name btw) then they wouldnt even acknowledge your existence. find out answers for yourself....dont rely on others, especially those that have obvious race issues. good luck