Sunday, November 29, 2009

I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

I'm not complaining but kind of venting out and seeking advice from people with expeirnce or who can help me!!!



1. I'm stressin out bout my older sister who is losing her faith in love and marriage. she use to be so excited about getting married to whoever she's meant to be with and now she says she doesnt want to get married, EVER. And doesnt even want a bf. She's 22. And also she says she doesnt want kids and I've always dreamt of having little nieces and nephews! Also she currently broke up with her bf of two years.



2. My parents aren't "in love" with each other like how they use to be when they were younger, my mom says she wants a divorce but my paretns cant because they are catholic and very religious and they figh constantly everyday. And it's not just stressin them out, its stressin me out too



3. I have an upcoming job interview this Saturday and i have no clue what to wear, how to get my hair done because my hair is plain, dull, and really messed up, and...



I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

I can really only help you with the 1st, 2nd and 3rd. I think your sister is just tired of being in a relationship, it takes a lot of hard work to stay on a relationship for so long and it's really frustrating when the person you supposedly love doesn't really help you. I don't really think she's never going to get married and have kids, she just needs to have time on her own. Your parents might be going through tough times right now, and even though they might feel like it's not going to work, it might just be that they are frustrated with how things are moving along right now, but there is no reason to talk about divorce either, I think that maybe you should just try to be as helpful as possible, and if they argue, try not to pay too much attention to it, or let them know that their arguments are stressing you out, it's best to be frank with them. For your interview, it depends where it is you're going to work, but best I can tell you is that you should wear something that's comfortable for you with out looking like a complete bum. And about your hair, don't worry mine's like that too, you should either tie it up, or maybe try straightening it.



I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

1.u need to get her to try to talk it out to someone and get help for her 2. they can get somthing like counsuling for mariges 3. just be yourself 4. get it in to his hed that he needs to quit or it could be trouble for ur entire family !!!!!!dont let him smoke!!!!!!! Report It



I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

you should talk to someone at school, like a counselor. or see if you can talk to one outside of school



I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

ignore it all and find a safe haven to think about you, in the end after the worst is over and what's done is done, there's good that come out of it.



I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

1st, 15 is not an age where you have to work so relax, at least you have an interview at your age. 2 all those other problems are for the adults to worry about...not you! Focus on your school work. jeez you will have an ulser my the time u are 16. and smoking doesnt make your penis bleed. STDs do.



I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

about you sister, she just broke up wit her bf. its just depression, man. she'll probably get over it. meanwhile help her out of this thing your parents, u cant do a lot about i them, but you cud sit them down and talk to them. tell em youre sick of the fights.



job interview: cant really help u there , cuz im 15 and have NO experience.



oh and try watchin some funny stuff on youtube



i recommend russell peters. very very funny



its wat i do when im stressed, hope it helps



I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

I agree, it sounds like a really good idea for you to talk to a school counselor about what's been bugging you at home.



I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

stop thinking about it.



with this list you make



of four things? you should



write four really positive



things and then just remember



those.



I have so much stress on my plate and im only 15???

1. It's her life! Just be there if she needs you, and realize that she might change her mind yet again.



2. Tell you parents this! You shouldn't have to suffer.



3. Are you really ready for a job??? It might cause you even more stress, but it might be fun. Just try to look clean and pulled together. Be yourself.

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