my hair now is wavy and the only solution I know is to rebond my hair to make it straight...But I think it's to short to rebond.. and I am a boy... but actually my hair is not wavy I have straight hair when I am kid but because I do not brush my hair and I always use gel it become wavy... Im now 16 and I only become aware in my hair problem just now... pls help me T_T
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He is a great kid. He makes good grades, hangs out with a good crowd of kids( and come from families where hair is not an issue), is respectful to his peers and adults, and does what he is told without aguments - for the most part. He is into music and plays the guitar very well. The way he wants to wear his hair is not what His father deems acceptable. I on the other hand don't have a problem with the style he chooses as long as he keeps it neat and his attitude/grades remain positive. His hair has been a big source of upset between him and his dad to the point of a physical blowout. My son has come to me for help (his dad and I have been divorced for 3 years). My son thinks I have just as much say in his hair as his father and for a fifteen year old hair is soooo important otherwise this would be a ridiculous subject. I don't know what to do. His dad always gets what he wants and bully's his way to the top. I don't know how to help or what to say to his dad. Any ideas?
It's his hair. He's 15, he should be able to like keep his hair like however he wants.
Your son sounds like a good kid. Let him wear his hair however he likes it. If his grades and attitude don't change, I don't see any harm in it.
He should totally get to be able to decide his own hair style. He is in a part of his life when he needs to try and find himself. It's good that he wants to express himself. By controlling him you are limiting his growth and development as a person. He will not know what to do if you keep controlling him because he hasn't found himself yet. I really hope that I helped.
yeah he is 15 and its only his hair. Let him do whatever he wants with his hair.
Uh yah. Your 15 yr old should be able to wear his hair however. he is 3 years away from being able to be considered an adult and is not even a year away from being able to drive. Hes not a baby anymore. have the kid get his hair cut when hes with u and do it how he wants. big deal. whats the problem?
HE SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT KID. I RAISED 3 CHILDREN AND BELIEVE IF HIS HAIR IS THE ONLY PROBLEM YOU HAVE COUNT YOUR BLESSING. IN THIS DAY AN AGE WHEN DRUGS/SEX AND OUTRAGES BEHAVIOR SEEMS TO BE THE NORM. PIC YOUR FIGHTS OVER THE BIG THINGS NOT THE WAY HE EXPRESSES HIMSELF AS LONG AS HE IS NOT HURTING HIMSELF OR OTHERS
Why not say "shut up and sit down"
That's what my Grandmother always told my Grandfather when he was being a jerk..
Hair grows out, you can cut it different way.
Tell his father he is being controlling about something that means nothing..
And when he is older and choosing his nursing home, this is what he will remember, not the car he bought him or the fishing trips, but dad was always a jerk about my hair...
At fifteen your son is probably going through loads of things. Peer pressure and independence at probably way at the top.
Imagine, your son probably just wants his hair in a certain way to gain some control and independence in his decisions, it is very important to him. He may end up looking like a total prat (sorry to say) but it'll be a phase that he has to go through.
It's sad that his father has gone to the extent of arguing about it but doesn't it make sense that his father probably sees it as a challenge against him? As in, he loses control over his son as his son gains independence.
I'm not sure how to deal with his father but from experience, I'd let your son do whatever he wants with his hair. After all, it's just a phase, right? Hope that helps.
At 15, self image and image among peers rank as high as grades and family relationship. At 15, he's old enough to make his own decisions on his afterschool activities (sports vs math club as an example) as well as his clothes, and his Hair.
You should talk to his father that these superficial things are NOT where his concerns should be but more focus on bigger issues in his teenage years - such as driving a car, drugs, underage drinking, smoking, dating, college, etc. There are sooooo many things that a teenager can fight about with their parents - hair shouldn't be one of them.
As a parent, you should know when to back off and when to take a stand. and thats what you can say to your ex husband.
part of being a parent of an adolescent is growing with your child and knowing when to let go and let a kid be a man and when to step in to be parent!!!
It's only hair. It will grow back.
Hair is such a miniscule thing. You should definitely let hm decide how to wear his hair. It willdefinitely increase his respect for you.
If you telll him he can't change his hair, he will feel "misunderstood" and want to rebel. And from hair, it could go on to big things like tatoos and pircings. So just let him express himself, explore different options, and remember, hair always grows back!
Okay soo my friend is turning goth. I really want to stop her! She has really blonde hair. shes thinking about dieing her hair black!trust me it wouldnt look good on her. Were only in middle school too! Most kids will be afraid of her! Her fav singer/band went from the JO BROS to some goth singer named Betty Curse or something like that. Please help me to convinse her not to be goth!
Tell her shes crazy! No, just kidding ask whats up maybe theres a reason shes acting that way.Maybe shes trying to impress someone. Also tell her you think that she would look better with her natural hairstyles. Or she may be depressed. Figure out whats going on a home?
THANKS U GUYZ!She decided not to be goth, just to be jirly/punk!Thanks! Report It
You must put garlic on her, its the only way.
OMG MIDDLE SCHOOL? Tell her how pathetic she will look to older kids. People will think he's a poser I mean from the Jonas Brothers to some goth band? WTF, tell her to grow up.
Buy her tons of prep clothes.
Haha, I'm just kidding.
But no, tell her the truth, and how it would look ugly on her, and that she will look like a poser to everyone else, and people will start hating her.
theres nothing wring with it its just how she has decided to express herself and if shes changing that quickly than its probably just a phase it'll pass let her do it ans when she finds where shes comfortablt you will be comfty too even if you are polar opposites when its over
If she's really your friend, you should like her no matter how she dresses or what music she listens to. Are you afraid she'll be an outcast, or are you afraid that you'll be an outcast by association?
If a guy gets a new girlfriend and has been with her for 2 weeks does that mean he's completly over his old one?
Story:
I went out with him for 2 years...he could be such a jerk to me and was very sneaky. He was my first boyfriend/kiss/i told him my secrets/i lost my virginity to him (he told a lot of his friends which made me upset). I walked away from him and he tried to keep in touch for 3 months while this girl was trying really hard to pursue him. Now he has this new girlfriend and I don't hear from him anymore. I broke up with him...yet I feel bad he found someone else...the girl has dark hair like me....she's obsessed with Hannah Montana which is like a little kids show...I don't know I just don't like her I think she's weird...Why am I having a hard time moving on? Maybe because I see him every day at school...I don't know why it's so hard...
its always hard i went out with a guy for 2 days and now he has a new girlfriend (i broke up with him) and every time i see the i get a weird feeling we are still friends but its just hard to talk to him ESPECIALLY if you lost your virginity to him
First of all dissing your competition is just for sore losers. Its never gonna work. And second, get over it. He isnt interested in going with you anymore, so let him be. Find someone else.
A good way to forget about this guy is to not have anything to do with him for a few days. Find a weekend when you can go out with friends, you know, out to the mall, or to a theme park, things that girlfriends do with each other. Then sleepover with a few close friends and talk with them. Have some fun with them, fun you don't have with guys. It should help take your mind off him for a few days. Hope this helps. :)
Just move on...
Well, your question is not too long. It's hard because it was your first real relationship. And you did the right thing in all respects. He will be as bad to her as he was to you. It is too recent for you to get over with. His new girlfriend is making everything hard all over again. You need more time. He is not worth your thoughts.
I know this is very tough but I would advise you forget this guy. He is not worth you. He really does not seem concerned about you. Just try to forget him by throwing away things given by him like gifts or anything that reminds you of him, not thinking of him. If you see him in school, just walk past. Just behave as if he never existed. Try doing this. I know its not easy but this seems one of the only ways out.
Take care
Im also trying to move on from a guy. I also see him everyday at school. It just makes it that much harder. Unfortunately, ive learned that if theres something in your head that you want to forget about but its been in your head for so long that when you want to let go...you almost cant.
good luck...
ay yai yai. well i have been in the same situation before, well still in it kinda.
he could be dating the girl cuz he is mad at you, my ex dated a girl the following week cuz he was so mad an hurt i broke up with him.
you can ignore him if you want or just act like it doesnt bother you much. i mean he did pursue you for 3 months after you broke up with him, and if you don't like him then you have to realize there is a point in evreyone's life where you got to let people move on and he might be doing that too.
as for you, i think its normal for an ex to get a little jealous but in a sense it shows you aren't over him. so i think you 2 need to have a talk and see where you both are at. the main thing is to make asure youuuu are happy.
hope i helped :/
no i don't think he's over you yet. i dated a girl for a year and a half and several months after we broke up i had a new gf and i wasnt completely over my ex even though we had stopped talking for a few months. the reason ur finding it hard to move on is because he was probably ur first love. you'll always have a soft spot in ur heart for him, but dont confuse this with wanting him back. just give it time and you will be able to move on. date new guys until you find one you like a lot
i know how u feel. the reason that its really hard to move on is because.. like u said.. u two went out for 2 years.. had ur ups and downs... and mostly u gave him ur everything. he was ur first everything basically and he was like ur best friend if u told him all ur secrets. and u see him everyday at school and everything u see him im guessing all the memories and times u had with him comes back. and the way ur saying this girl is all weird and stuff just.. i dont know for sure but it could be jealousy that u still arent over this guy yet. and if he's been chasing u for over 3 months bfore u stopped (which was wat happened w/ this guy i use to go out w/ but it was only for like 2 months.) well.. obviously he was sick and tired of not having u anymore.. u pushed him away and everything and he decided to move on. and if he was mean and a jerk to u.. think about it... why would u want to go out w/ him again? it'll take a long time.. it took me a longg time to get over my real first too... but what you need to do is get over this guy. start looking at other guys. it'll help to start thinking about something else for a change. ull still have thoughts about him and stuff.. but slowly ... as time goes buy.. ur heart will heal and ull be able to find someone new and its alright to have memory flashes becuase he was ur first everything.. but just know he was never the right one for and if u cant believe that think about all the bad things he's done to u and how mean he was to u.
it may be beacuse there is something about him you still like and you may need "closure" and because you feel that way about him you are jealous of the new girl he is dating
I think you should pull him aside and tell him how you feel and maybe he can help because if he's what you say he is I'm sure he will be willing to help you out
Is the whole world trying to decieve us out of jelousy and envy. The whole world seems to hate us but every body copy us. People around the world wear braids, twist,cornrows, tan their skin, curl and make their hair kinky, date and marry the black man and woman and have nappy head kids by us. Also listen to our music and sing like us,dance like us, read our history and culture, watch,us, love talkin about us and pretend to be as deep, loving and good natured as we are. Whats up with that.
I agree with you. White Society want to keep blacks in a certain box. Even though some white people say they hate blacks. You will hear and see them dressing like blacks and using black slang. Black people have flavor and style. We are creative and very resourceful. We are strong people and survivors. I hear some white people on YA talking about black people have big lips and butts. Why are negroids so ugly? They are constantly harassing and dissing blacks. They are the one secretly going to plastic surgery to get their lips and butts enhance. White women wear fake ponytails and weaves too. I notice they copy stuff that black people do. I think some of them secretly envy blacks. Yes. We have to fix the racism we have within our own community too.
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I do not think so many people look down on Black people. I don;t feel race is important. I neither admire nor look down on anyone based on race, religion, sexual orientation, etc...
It sounds like you suffer from racial chauvinism. Get it looked at... chauvinism is the bedrock of fascism.
I believe that black people are still suffering from a post-slave period. Even when black people were slaves their music was copied.
Hopefully, one day everybody will get along.
We as Black people allow it to happen. We've continue to sit back and allowed ourselves to be disrespected and ill treated by others. Take a look at today's society.
Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall!!
I don't think many people look down on black people. Most people probably don't think about black people one way or the other. I also don't think any race or culture of people is most admired. Each has traditions that are enjoyed and celebrated within its own group. Often times, these traditions spill over. Right now, many people are enjoying celebrating the Year of the Pig. Cultural awareness may be something you haven't been exposed to very much.
I Ditto Norm's post.
Check your belief system for inherent flaws.
None of us should think we're better or worse.
Fashion is so capricious that no one can claim they invented this or that--it's whimsy, that's all.
The children of the near future will have no distinguishable racial profile--except for maybe blue-eyed blondes, and they will be in the equivalent of a human zoo.
Good luck.
Well the world is changing and every one copies what they like and i think some should be admired too. Like for example Martin Luther King had kind of learned to do what he did by studing what gandhi gee did and he probally did the same. and i do stuff that people around the world do.
Not every white person admires the black race. Some do and some dont its a fact. Dont Generalise...
I really don't know why, many African-American people are an inspiration in music(jazz music), politics and human rights, everyone is should be =. Although i must be honest, I am not a fan of rap music b/c most of the time it is talking about negative things or illegal things like smoking, alcohol sometimes contains bad words or just has inappropriateness
maybe that's one reason why, I'm not sure, i don't want to insult anyone or any fan of rap but that is just my opinion.
i know that the kkk (klu klux klan)looks down on afracan american people and still do ( long story)
The whole world doesn't hate you. The whole world isn't copying you either. Stop generalizing...Do you think the entire white race is conspiring against you? Come on, get real...Your whole rant is no different then some ignorant white, s..t for brains individual. You want the whole world to love you...It just isn't realistic. Next time, check your ego at the door.
There are incredible things about every race. All races have gifted people, not just blacks, and not just whites. I'm white, and it infuriates me that there are white people put themselves on pedestals, But black people do too, they put black people above everyone else, and I hate that just as much. I don't understand why people can't look past color and see the person. God, We're all human, regardless of our skin color, and all races have incredibly gifted people to offer the world. But it sounds like you do the same thing too, that blacks are better than whites, that's just as bad as what the whites you're complaining about. I just wish we all could be blind for one day and not see the color of the people we are dealing with. I think we all would be surprised.
I have to strongly disagree. And please do not lable me as being a hater of the black race. I have not problems with black people. The reason the black race is getting the rap that it currently has is simple. Your young men are animals and run around proving they are. The black man of today is murdering the black race all over the world. In American black gangs have began a real issue. Black woman are following suit which is a shame as well. So why would you think we would admire you or even envy you.
People are respected because of charactor. This is the real issue in the black race today. The lack of charactor for the most part has created a great divid between all the other races and the black race. Charactor is a quality that is gained thur adversity. There is good and bad charactor. In the case of the black race you seem to want a fairy tail existance. Always living in the past never embracing the future. Example always harping on the slave days never admitting that just as many blacks owned slaves as whites. Why is that important! Shows you lack character is admitting the truth. Is that important, Blacks today go to college under government programs when better educated students of other races can't. Students that worked hard only to be bumped out of school so a less qualified black man or woman could go to school. So you are a special class of citizen. Have you been rewarded because of merit no, you were rewarded because you are black. This shows a hand me up mantality and a lack of charactor. What happens is yu end up with a bunch of black people that did not have to suffer to gain charactor that would actually being wisdom and understanding to the needs of sufferage. All people suffer yes all, whites, blacks and the rest.
When people who do not have to work advance become advanced in the social order the results will be the destruction of that social race. This is happening today in the black race.
I have a great many black friends, and we speak of these things all the time. I am glad to report that some black people have good charactor. But also they will tell you that todays youth lact real charactor. Charactor is developed not earned and not mandated by congress. I want to point out that charactor today is the number one problem in all races.
Our nation has forgot that the charactor we instill in our children has long term results. And the failure to instill quality charactor is destroying the youth of the nations. In America there can't be healing of the races until the charactor of the races is restored.
Also i would like to add that the whole world is not copying black people. You need to get real, were i live the black people and the white people are the same. Just hard working people trying to have a good life. We dress the same and we talk the same. We even eat the same food and drink the same soda. I myself live fried chicken and watermelon. We all do here. We are what you call real. And we do not care what any one thinks. We are humans. But one thing you will find here that you can't find in those big cities is charactor.
i fear that you have become delusional. please seek treatment.
You sure don't act loving and good-natured... Unless hatred of those not like you is loving... if it is, then all racists, including you, would be...
I agree with you. People always hatin' on us, then go behind our backs and talk **** about us. They really need to stop that!! People talk about black people like they change they damn socks!! I'm not trying to be racist or trying to act like black people are ALL THAT but many people hate on black people.
Dey dont wanna admit we the smartest there iz.
Why don't you cut the crap and give us a good ol' n i g g e r work song?
You are absolutely right. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't get up in the morning,look in the mirror and say "how can I make myself look more like a n i g g e r?".
I don't admire black people, and not all black people are 'loving and good natured' as you say, oh and by the way, you don't need a full stop if you are using a '?', just thought i would let you know !
Have you ever considered people 'diss' and 'hate on you' because of your whining like now?
To people who think white people owe you something, we don't, you personally didn't work as slaves did you, you wasn't caused hurt by this, hell if it wasn't for that you probably wouldn't be in America now!
Robert Shelton, you are a benefit to mankind. Thank you.
B*tch please, dont even try and post a question on here, trying to defend Blacks, you've been bashing black females with your questions, on almost every single question you posted on Yahoo anwers. I'm convince, YOUR NOT EVEN A BLACK FEMALE!!
Your just a troublemaker hiding behind a black avatar!!!!
Are you serious? Copy you? Deep? Whoa! Are you in America? I'll tell you what....the 90's are over. It might have resembled something like what you described back then, but I think society is wising up and realizing that the slavery days are beyond our ability to reconcile, rap stinks, R%26amp;B is too whiny, white rappers are a joke, and spageti and fish are not to be eaten in the same meal!! And the hair thing......I'll be damned if I met a black person that had decent, long, well-managed hair that was real! Yes, us white people are not bald with wigs, because we can't get our hair to do what we want, like you. Good natured? Your culture is all about screwing eachother.....how do you think you were sold to America. It wasn't a white guy that sold you to a white guy.
Imitation is most sincerest form of flattery. They mimic our hairstyles, even our cornrows, the way we dress, the way we walk and talk. They even love the black man. They do not look down on us, secretly they want to be us.
I'm not so sure so many do.
I am older and have always thought black
women know how to dress nice better than
us white women.
The kinky hair started long ago with the "white"
spiral in the South.
The music-I don't know. I think the young kids
get a kick out of how vulgar a lot of it is.
But it is your opening statement that is "off"
when you say blacks are the most admired.
Just like whites, Indians, etc. those who accomplish a good life are admired and emulated.
I am afraid that you are a little racist which
bounces off you like a lot of white people who
are racist.
From what I have studied, if we get to heaven
we are no color, just light.
The entire world has been trying to keep the black man down for many centuries due to jealousy. For example, they deny the most obvious and indisputable truths. Buddha was an Ethiopian king who was kidnapped by the evil asians and forced to produce a religion for them. Far from being deified, he was kept in a cage and had his mystical powers slowly sucked away by this evil race, until he died, lonely and longing for the motherland. George Washington was really a black man born with pale features, stolen from the African heartland because the whites knew that one of their own could never rise to lead the nation, yet afraid to abide an actual "black" man leading them. And George Washington Carver, who invented a peanut-based formula for immortality, is still to this day kept in a locked cell three miles underground in Langley, VA--forced to churn out inventions for the CIA. Yes, they owe us much, and are as ungrateful as they are jealous.
Fifty sure-fire ways to detect paganism without having to resort to a
dunking stool or wart-inspection.
1) Never puts any rubbish out on refuse-collection day. I mean, re-
cycling and composting is fine, but you can take it too far.
2) You casually ask what phase the moon is in, and she tells you down
to the exact number of days, hour and minute of rising, position on
horizon, and current angle of declination.
3) All the stray cats in the neighbourhood tend to congregate in her
garden (and use your own as their litter).
4) A screech owl has chosen the lamp-post outside her house as its
favorite calling-post. That's just when it's getting warm at night
and you like to sleep with the window open.
5) Doesn't cut down the weeds in her garden; in fact it looks more
like she's cultivating them. Needless to say, you get the seeds
wafting over onto your pristine lawn.
6) Most of her clothes on the washing line are black.
7) The local kids talk in whispers as they go past her house, then
start running at the last moment.
8) Nobody trick-or-treats her house; not after the incident when the
kids' costumes were less scary than hers when she opened the door to
them. (She was embracing the Crone that year no doubt!)
9) Footprints on the roof. And the trees in her flight-path have been
pruned down. I swear it's true!
10) She can't even make a simple sandwich without adding fresh herbs
to it. And don't ask her for a cup of tea unless you want something
yellow coloured and smelling of flowers.
11) She hardly ever gets junk mail. You ask her what her secret is
and she confides that she returns it to sender after writing
something on in strange curly writing.
12) When you pop next door for a chat, the kettle is always already
on.
13) The Jehovah's Witnesses never call (not anymore; not after the
last time :-).
14) Keeps the local scented-candle shop solvent.
15) Has a pond full of frogs (and you haven't seen that bothersome
double-glazing salesman around for a while).
16) She's always smiling, darn her!
17) She goes dressed as normal to a Hallowe'en fancy dress party; and
wins first prize.
18) Her house always smells of incense.
19) Has named her four cats Hecate, Kali, Diana, and Moonbeam. (Or
her rats Devon and Cornwall)
20) Her bumper sticker reads "I brake for toads".
21) Frequently gets raided by the drug squad who confiscate large
amounts of dried green leaves; they always return them with apologies
after analysis.
22) At Christmas, it seems like half the garden has been moved into
the house.
23) You sometimes hear the sound of singing and dancing through the
wall. If you look out of the window, it is usually a full moon.
24) She was given a bodhram drum for her birthday. And she plays it
at midnight in the fields. And she's got a blasted tamborine.
25) You discover that her realistic resin skull ornament in her
living room, actually is real.
26) You catch her washing a crystal ball along with the dishes.
27) She wears a lot of silver jewelry, even when doing the gardening.
And bat ear-rings for goodness-sake.
28) You knock on her door and she answers it naked except for a
toweling robe. You apologize for disturbing her in the bath, but
notice that her hair isn't wet.
29) Irritating tendency to hum a lot. What's she got to be so happy
about, huh?
30) She has a tame robin that will eat from her hand in the garden.
That can't be natural.
31) Never catches a cold, even though she walks barefoot most of the
time. In the snow as well.
32) Doesn't kill spiders. Not even big hairy long-legged ones that
suddenly appear from the waste-pipe whilst you're having a bath.
33) She listens to what you are saying like she really cares.
34) She has lots of female friends who come round every few months.
When you ask what they get up to, she tells you that they just have
cakes and ale and a good natter.
35) You catch her hugging a tree.
36) Her dinner-set is decorated with Celtic patterns.
37) She has a mail-order account with a semi-precious gem wholesaler.
38) You notice that the parish priest crosses himself whenever he
walks past her house.
39) She never watches television. And she has shelves full of books
with black spines and silver-lettered titles.
40) To your certain knowledge she has never set foot in the local
church. In fact, you have heard rumours that she has been barred from
it.
41) She makes jars of quince and mandrake relish for the Women's
Institute coffee morning jumble sale.
42) You ask to borrow a pack of cards for an impromptu bridge
evening, and there are 78 in the pack.
43) You have never known her to visit her GP.
44) When you talk with her, she maintains eye contact all the time.
45) Expectant mothers are forever visiting her. Also women who become
expectant mothers a month after visiting her.
46) You ask her for suggestions for nice walks in the area, and they
all go by way of stone circles and strange earth mounds.
47) She only buys organic. And you just bet that she's a vegetarian
as well. (Well, maybe not stricly vegetarian.. ..)
48) When you ask her about her vacation plans, she tells you she will
be camping in a tee-pee in the Brecon Beacons.
49) There aren't any mirrors in her house. Or clocks.
50) She tells you that she is coming out of the broom closet, joins
Witches' Voice, and erects a stained-glass pentacle window in her
front door . Ooo what a give-away!
Very funny! Some of them hit pretty close to the mark :)
My cat is named Pyewacket, after a familiar I read about.
Jehovah Witnesses don't visit me anymore.
Lots of books with black binding %26amp; silver runes on the spines!
Thanks for the laugh!!
thanks!
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